Nathaniel
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December 17, 2008
My Priceless Christmas
Gift from Gordon
“Nathaniel, there was something I wanted to talk to you about before
tonight’s concert. I don’t expect anything to happen, but just in case .
. . If I keel over, I want you to ask Dorothy to step in for me. She’s
the alto in the front row, and she has conducting experience.”
“You’ll be fine, Gordon.”
“But just in case.”
Our church was about to put on our annual Christmas Vespers Concert, and
our 70-plus-year-old interim choir director was bent over with fatigue.
The day before the concert, he had been through a grueling
two-and-a-half-hour dress rehearsal. It went late because some people
weren’t there, some orchestra members were unprepared, and everything
sounded choppy. Everyone involved was nervous. After the morning
rehearsal, Gordon went on to direct another choir, which he had founded,
in one of many tightly packed performances.
The next morning, the day of the concert, he arrived early to conduct
the choir for two morning church services, after which he gave me his
morbid backup plan as though he were discussing an F sharp. Then he went
home to get a few hours of much-needed rest.
Everyone arrived an hour and a half before the concert, and Gordon made
a point of reminding me of his just-in-case plan.
“I
got it, Gordon. Stop talking like that. It’ll be fine.” I was mostly
worried that we might suck.
During the pre-concert rehearsal, things didn’t sound much better than
they had the previous morning. The cellos kept getting two beats behind
during Handel’s “Rejoice Greatly.” The altos, who are usually the most
reliable section of the choir, kept singing a D sharp instead of D
natural during an a capella number. I was freaking out, and Gordon
looked tired.
Finally the thing actually started. The first piece was the
unaccompanied one and the altos actually sung a D natural. “Rejoice
Greatly” was the second number, and the cellos never fell behind. I was
shocked and little excited. But as I sat at the organ bench during a
Scripture reading, Gordon sat down on a chair next to me. He was
drenched in sweat. For a second, I stopped dreading all the mistakes I
could potentially make and began to worry for my conductor. Every
successive time he sat next to me his forehead was even shinier and he
seemed to hunch over even more. But as one song after another passed us
by, we never fell our on faces, and neither did Gordon.
We
got through it and it was the best we had ever sounded.
Gordon and I were both given flowers during the ovation, which was a
first for me, and I nearly cried. I can hardly remember feeling such
relief. It was weird.
As
my wife and I were leaving the church, I realized that I had yet to
privately congratulate Gordon. I told my wife I’d catch up with her and
went to find him. He was leaving, gingerly, and I told him how proud of
him I was. We hugged, rather awkwardly, and I realized he was not
altogether comfortable with full-blown hugs.
My
wife told me later that she had talked to him after the concert. He had
said something to the tune of, “Nate’s like the son I never had.” And
once again, I was holding back tears. My picture of Gordon was finally
beginning to clear up. He’s reserved face-to-face, but a secondhand
gusher. That rather reminded me of my father.
The entire experience will undoubtedly go down as a highlight of
Christmas 2008, and will be hard to top. It reminded me that Christmas
is about giving, and giving is not about things. It’s about your time,
your energy and your love.
Gordon gave nearly everything he had. And as an added bonus, he did it
without keeling over.
Just as Charlie Brown’s friend Linus reminded him of what Christmas was
all about, my friend Gordon reminded me of the best way to celebrate it.
May we all be so lucky.
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