I
sympathize with children with difficult names. To date, the only
stranger who has pronounced my name correctly was a Starbucks
barista showing off her knowledge of Italian (“hazelnut latte for
Loo-CHI-ya”).
My
peers would sing the Chia Pet jingle during recess and teachers
would glare at me when I corrected them. Consequently, when I read
of yet another celebrity child scarred by an atrocious name I cannot
help but think that the parents are conspiring against the kid.
The baby girl Angelina Jolie bore this weekend in Namibia was named
Shiloh. I’m sure it means something very deep in a foreign language,
but the kid’s going to live in the States if Mommy and Daddy want to
keep on making the money they need to pay off foreign governments
for privacy.
I
assume they were trying to keep up with the diversity in the
household, Maddox and Zaharra are names that must be lived up to.
But naming your child after what brings to mind a dog from
children’s literature may not be the direction to take. Considering
the high potential for playground teasing, they may as well have
named her McGruff.
The usually unconventional Ms. Jolie seems to be following a
Hollywood trend from quite some time ago. Kim Bassinger’s daughter
is Ireland. (Wait until the she gets to college. Saying “I was in
Ireland for St. Patrick’s Day” to his buddies will gain a guy a
completely different kind of recognition.)
Mia Farrow went with Lark Song for one of her daughters. Plenty of
harassment due there, but I’ll leave the girl alone, I assume Woody
Allen would hate the competition.
Spike
Lee named his baby girl Satchel. Lee is a very smart guy, so we can
assume that this also has some mystical meaning. Nevertheless, in
the contemporary world it is a term thrown around in fashion
magazines to describe the latest designer purse. And how big it is
inside and how long it lasts. You wouldn’t want your child getting
confused with that, would you?
Celebrities picked up on this trend again over the past few years.
Casey Affleck, Ben’s brother, went with Indiana August. Courtney Cox
Arquette and her husband David named their daughter Coco. Once
again, a great name for a dog (preferably small and fluffy).
Gwyneth Paltrow gave birth to Apple Martin. While the media have
exhausted all the ‘Apple Martini’ jokes, the kid still has to live
with it. It’s actually cute for something small and bubbly, but
suppose she decides to be a criminal lawyer. Counselor Apple Martin
does not sound like someone who will get you parole.
I
would say something about Suri Cruise too, but it’s Tom. Explaining
his child’s name is one of the last weird things that man has to
explain.
So
why the need to be so outrageous when naming a child? Maybe it is
the parent’s need for attention. It makes them feel original, it
gets them press coverage.
On
the other hand, maybe they want to make sure that the child has
something special to them, so that they do not develop an
inferiority complex in the shadow of Mommy’s Oscar and Daddy’s
Grammy.
When you are born with a silver spoon in your mouth, wearing Gucci
at three months and getting birthday parties that run into the
hundreds of thousands of dollars, you need something to keep you
grounded.
Being told to roll over by your fellow fourth graders should do the
job.