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Candace

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March 9, 2009
Crisis Sparks Action: EmailHope.com
 
With partisan bickering back in high gear, it’s easy for politicians and pundits to forget or disregard the millions upon millions in this country suffering during this economic crisis.
 
The full extent of the country’s fear and pain became unavoidably clear to Jerry Biederman three days after President Barack Obama’s inauguration. Biederman, a Los Angeles-based author and reality TV show developer, casually e-mailed a friend he’s known for 15 years, “How are you doing?”
 
The return e-mail, from a man we‘ll call Steve Jones, hit Biederman like the proverbial lightning bolt. In his lengthy reply, Jones revealed that he and his family are hanging on financially by their fingernails, and that he was to the point of despair over his inability to pay overdue bills and provide for his wife and children.
 
“So what do I do now?” Jones’s e-mail summed up. “When working hard is no longer working, what do you have left?”
 
“It’s the most devastating e-mail I have ever received from a close friend,” Biederman says. “My friend put words and an identity to this financial crisis. The statistics don’t do justice to the pain, fear and desperation people are going through.”
 
With his business income collapsing, Jones says he and his wife have cut out as much household and personal spending as possible, and still their finances deteriorate. “Behind every foreclosure is a person who’s suffering. I know what it’s like to worry about that.”
 
Wanting to help his friend, Biederman forwarded the e-mail to his mailing list. He asked his correspondents to send back a few words of support. Did they ever, passing the e-mail along to their e-mail lists in turn. Biederman was soon awash in responses from around the country and even across the globe. All of the correspondents wanted to offer something encouraging.
 
Biederman decided to set up a web site, www.emailhope.com. The site asks visitors to leave messages of encouragement and support, and to share their stories of struggle along with their insights.
 
 “I wanted a do something positive in response to something so bleak,” Biederman says. “There’s a lot of quiet desperation behind closed doors. People don’t want their family, friends, and neighbors to know, but they have to open up about this. It’s empowering to get rid of your secrets.”
 
E-mail Hope posters have opened up. They speak from the heart and pull no punches. One woman reveals that her mother recently committed suicide over her lost money, leaving her and her family in anguish. Another hope e-mailer talks about selling her house to pay for treating her daughter’s cancer.
 
They’re funny and poignant, too. One contributor suggests “a Crayola bomb” as “a happiness weapon” to cure our ills, while a second offers, “God bless you – things WILL get better – just hold on, please.”
 
“E-mail Hope is working for me and a lot of people who are coming to read it,” Jones says. ”All these letters coming in are amazing reading. You know people get what you are going through.”
 
This site should be required study for all those politicians, regulators and financial executives whose ideologies, negligence, greed and outright fraud helped bring about this fiasco.
 
“We’re a whole nation of people who are scared,” Jones says. “You did a good job of scaring us. Now what are you going to do?”
 
Any answers?

 

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