July 2, 2007
How to Keep Your Job
While You Find Your True Path in Life
Third in a four-part
series.
Andy Rooney, journalist and television commentator, once wrote, “I’ve
learned that everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the
happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.” The science of
Positive Psychology backs Rooney’s wisdom.
Research by University of Pennsylvania psychologist Martin Seligman has
demonstrated that when people have the opportunity to use their natural
strengths, experience positive emotion and engage in meaningful
activities, they are happy. Seligman’s research points to the importance
of the voyage of life, not just the final port of call.
Last week I told you to take a “Fill Year” if you are searching for your
true path in life. In a Fill Year, you explore the activities that
engage your strengths, and the activities that are gratifying to you.
Whatever interests you, pursue it. Get out and try things. Do as 13th
Century poet and mystic Jalaluddin Rumi advised: “Respond to every call
that excites your spirit.”
But then some of you wrote to me and asked, “What if I want to explore
my interests without having to give up my job?” The answer - start a
Fill Year project at work. With a little planning and creativity, you
can find opportunities to explore your interests with the blessing and
support of your company.
Consider how you might participate in company initiatives related to
your interests. What events does your company sponsor that you could
attend? What volunteer activities could you sign up for, or plan? Which
task forces or committees could you join? Which training sessions could
you attend? Which ones could you lead? What party could you organize?
What employee recognition event could you design? What educational
session could you coordinate? Who could you mentor? What research could
you conduct? What newsletter could you write?
Find out who shares your interests in your company. Form groups. Join
organizations. Go to events together. When I worked for MasterCard, I
went to lectures after work with members of other departments. Our
exploration together led to an even better partnership at work. What
could you do with senior management? What could you do with your team?
What could you do with another department?
Companies love to see their employees participate in team-building
activities inside and outside of work. What fun and interesting
activities would your company support? When I worked for Yahoo!, I used
to give my employees a budget each month to plan events that brought our
department together. What activities could you arrange?
Now, what if you’re contemplating a new career or opening your own
business? Follow my grandfather’s advice. He used to say, “If you want
to go into the stationery business, work in a stationery store.” His
message was to learn first, then decide if you want to take the plunge.
Use some of your Fill Year to work part-time or volunteer in a business
that you’re interested in. Do it for the experience, not for the money.
“Autotelic” is my favorite “big” word. It means, “having an end or
purpose in and not apart from itself.” It comes from the Greek word
“autotelis” which translates to “complete in itself.” Your Fill Year
goal is to engage in as many autotelic experiences as possible. You
choose activities that are meaningful to you no matter where they might
take you. These activities are worth doing for their own sake.
I
went to a “how to write professionally” seminar after work with
colleagues from another department at MasterCard; I thought it would be
interesting. Ten years and two companies later, I’m now a syndicated
newspaper columnist.
Follow your interests. You never know where they will take you.
© 2007 David J. Pollay.
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