January 22,
2007
Perfectionist Nation, Perfectionist President: Part 1
The United
States is a perfectionist nation. It says so right in the preamble to
our Constitution “…in order to form a more perfect union…”
Certainly
the Pilgrims who landed in New England left their native countries
intent on establishing that “shining city on a hill” in which their
version of God’s righteousness would thrive.
Their
descendents may have rejected the religious trappings, but their
perfectionist streak lives on in a secular incarnation. Whenever
catastrophe strikes, we Americans insist on doing something – at times
anything – to make sure such tragedy never happens again. We call for
more laws, more research, more education, as if any of the preceding
could eradicate that most human of tendencies: fallibility. We all
make mistakes.
Perfectionism imposes a high price in the corporate world. The late
psychologist and author J. Clayton Lafferty studied more than 9,000
managers and professionals and found that perfectionism, although
considered a positive attribute, was more likely to harm employees and
businesses. Lafferty called perfectionism an illusion, and equated it
with the desire to look good. Perfectionists equate their self-worth
with flawless performance, and are likely to try to cover up their
mistakes. As a result, productivity suffers.
I have
personal experience with the small ways in which perfectionists pummel
productivity. I once watched a perfectionist boss take time to replace
the stamp I had put on an envelope because it wasn’t precisely straight.
As if the recipients would give a hoot that the stamp was misaligned.
They probably didn’t look at it, straight or crooked.
Perfectionism extracts a high personal toll as well. Perfectionists
suffer from all manner of stress-related physical ailments, live in
constant fear of being seen as less than perfect and are always
disappointed in themselves and others for not living up to their fantasy
of perfection. They are so keenly disappointed, they often resort to
denial to keep the pain and self-condemnation at bay.
Take the
current occupant of the White House. George W. Bush is indeed a
perfectionist, and his personal issues have become the country’s
nightmare. During the 2004 presidential election campaign, Mr. Bush was
asked to think of a mistake he had made during his first term of office.
He said he could not think of any.
That’s
amazing. I am several years younger than Mr. Bush, and I haven’t got
enough fingers and toes to count all my major life mistakes, much less
my daily minor boo-boos and bumbles.
Nowhere was
Mr. Bush’s perfectionist denial of his fallibility more on display than
his most recent speech about Iraq.
“Where mistakes have been made, the responsibility rests with me,” he
said.
Using the passive voice enabled Mr. Bush to evade admitting to any
mistakes, much less offering any kind of apology for policy failures
that have led to tens of thousands of American and Iraqi deaths and made
this country less secure than ever.
It’s one
thing for individuals in perfectionist denial to wreak havoc among their
families, friends or even their workplaces. It’s another thing entirely
to have a perfectionist in the highest of public offices asserting
unlimited powers to make war and remake the U.S. Constitution to suit
his whims. The mayhem a perfectionist president leaves in his wake has
profound national and international effects and consequences.
Mr. Bush
most likely will never own up to any of his errors and remain in
perfectionist denial to the end of his days. That does not mean the rest
of us must follow suit. We can demand an end to failed policies and pay
close attention to any hints of perfectionism in the 2008 presidential
candidates in order to avoid choosing another such individual.
Nothing
less than the survival of our nation is at stake.
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